You're listing some very different pistols. You've identified a primary goal of home defence, which is one step ahead of many folks; so that presumably means it doesn't need to be compact and easy to conceal, and since full size pistols tend to be softer shooting and easier to shoot accurately that may be a win.
Beyond that, not sure I'd want a really light trigger for a home defense pistol. Imagine, something goes bump at 3:00 am, you're groggy, the adrenalin is pumping, and you've got your finger on a 4-lb race gun trigger, that may not always end well. Maybe you've got a new hole to repair in the drywall and some explaining to do and hopefully no nearby neighbor in that direction.
Of what you list I can speak from experience on the PDP. Nice trigger but a bit on the light side in my opinion, and it is not a soft recoiling pistol. Fast recoil, which can be a plus for a competition pistol which the PDP excels at, but it takes some training to get used to. I also have some older 1911 experience, not the same brands (mine is a Colt Series 70) but again, nice trigger, but best for target work, light and crisp. A safety is a personal preference, some like it and some don't, either way it again requires some training of muscle memory if you're not already experienced with it.
Other questions: Do you want the ability to mount a light? Or an optic? The answers may narrow the choices. Then yes, try to shoot them first if practical. What feels good in the hand doesn't always work best on the range.